Saddest Anime Intro You’ll Ever See!! (??)

The following video was posted in an INFJ group, captioned “Saddest Anime Intro You’ll Ever See!!”:

The group member says, “the power of mind reading and high intuition”. Most of us (INFJs) can relate. I used to say that I spent a lot of time at my grandparent’s place because my father could not handle me. I have never explored the validity of this because statement until this video. When I have been asked to explain further, my explanation is typically because I asked a lot of questions or because I got into lots of trouble. People used to describe me as a thoughtful, kind, or helpful person, but very  quiet. I heard “but very quiet” so often that it became how I described myself.

Being highly intuitive causes quite a bit of mixed emotions, confusion, sadness, joy, frequently at the same time, and really causes a strain on relationships. Knowing what people are thinking and hearing what they are saying causes lot of confusion, especially when one wants to see only the “good”, and I learned early on to be quiet about what I saw in people and the lies, if you will. If you say things like Kotoura-san does in this video, people think you are strange or they get angry with you. If you just don’t say anything, people think you are strange. I prefer being quiet.

Saying this video is sad tells me my life is sad. Maybe it is, however, I am quite comfortable most of the time not saying anything. Having a couple people in my life that accept me “just knowing” is preferable to having lots of people who don’t, people that I can’t be me with. We can connect in silence. 🙂